My wife keeps on telling me i fail in my erections due to watching porn… I kinda got to a point of believing it though am not that regular in watching porn as much as she believes
That it desensitizes me to sex, sometimes I feel like there is so much erotic content out there that I’m just getting too used to all of it. I think I know that ultimately a lot just depends on how I consume the content. For example, purposely watching porn to enjoy it and relax is way more positive than using it out of boredom or to fulfill a “need.” I think it is all about your mindset
My mind holds me to the standards in porn.
The guy is always hard while fucking for a long time (it’s completely normal to go soft during sex). I should be able to have sex for 30 to 60 minutes straight (average sex time is 2 to 8 mins).
When i don’t meet these impossible standards my brain turns against me and says I’m failing and my partner won’t be happy.
That is caused me to cum too fast and descensitize me to real life
That I can’t come without it
I’m desensitised to real life sex due to watching much porn
I worry that the porn I am into is unrealistic, and not something I can bring into my relationship
I like to bring ideas I find in porn to my wife. She’s normally down for it.
My wife is very vanilla. Porn lets me tap into the wilder side of my mind. I just wish I could explore with her too
I still think it can cause normal vanilla sex to make it difficult to stay aroused if continue to feed explicitly on more hardcore stuff
That pork can make me desensitized.
That porn desensitizes me to real sex
Porn encouraged Me to try riskier sexual activities.
That I can get erect only with porn
I think I was in a impression that porn gives initial kick.
That poem induced erectile dysfunction is real
That it ruins your drive as a man. Makes you weak, unambiguous, unproductive, awkward
That it has ruined my perception of the way a woman should look