I’m in the same boat and would like to know more
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Same here! I think the mental blocks I have that make it hard for me to relax during sex also make it hard for me to identify what I’d like to try without feeling self-conscious.
Maintaining an erection when putting on a condom
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Introducing toys and normalizing them
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Different roles dom/sub. More advice on oral clit stimulation
Be direct. It’s actually that simple
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Hep making it easer to cum with intercourse than with masturbation.
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Getting her open to try new things. She is extremely sexually conservative and won’t let me touch her vagina with hands or mouth, for example.
Ways to asking my wife to try new things and how to communicate that
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I find most positions really hard to achieve with my penis, I don’t have enough mobility
How we both can communicate in a way that doesn’t feel accusatory. I’m trying my best. I’m also trying to explain when my partner is speaking in an accusatory sense, which makes me feel bad and wanting to avoid sex with her (or my erections being impacted in subsequent attempts at being intimate). It’s really important, I think, for the communication to be playful, and you both still feel sexy by the end of it, and sexy for one another.
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Making it playful, whispering in their ear, and being short, respectful, and direct is great. I love the idea of hand guiding for an intimate nonverbal way of communicating yes and no and etc.
I saw one about discovering what you like and I agree with that one
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missionary, dog style, cow girl, sideways.
Exploring fetish/kink in detail. Have had suspicions I may be into foot stuff but have never had the courage to bring it up with a partner
Just more… this was awesome information, but there’s so much it needs repeating and adding.
Would definitely like more information on this!
We had a stage when I was able to hit her Gspot with my penis. I’d start with cunnilingus until she’d had an orgasm. Then I’d enter her, usually spooning or man on top, entering from behind. She would often cum a second time or come close to coming if I had the thrust angle right. I usually had to shift my hips up relative to her body so the end of my penis would ram against her Gspot, not slide past it. This was before the ED. Currently working on relationship intimacy more than sex but we’ll get there. Soo… do you want to include a sex skill section about bringing her to orgasm with the penis? She wants me to get back to that level of confidence and intentional focus on her pleasure. Penis just doesn’t want to cooperate anymore.
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It’d be really helpful to actually get kind of step by step instructions for positions and actually sticking it in.
I’ve seen a lot of guys (me included) seem to stress out once they are about to stick it in with either some fear of not knowing what they are doing or afraid it’s not hard enough to go in if it’s too tight or something.
Personally I struggle with this too, especially missionary, it seems like a very uncomfortable position so it’d help to have more in-depth and step by step ways to show how to actually do stick it in comfortably and not be in an uncomfortable position.
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Kinvin method of cunnilingus is a useful tool.
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