I’m in the same boat and would like to know more
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Same here! I think the mental blocks I have that make it hard for me to relax during sex also make it hard for me to identify what I’d like to try without feeling self-conscious.
Maintaining an erection when putting on a condom
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Introducing toys and normalizing them
Different roles dom/sub. More advice on oral clit stimulation
Be direct. It’s actually that simple
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Hep making it easer to cum with intercourse than with masturbation.
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Getting her open to try new things. She is extremely sexually conservative and won’t let me touch her vagina with hands or mouth, for example.
Ways to asking my wife to try new things and how to communicate that
I find most positions really hard to achieve with my penis, I don’t have enough mobility
How we both can communicate in a way that doesn’t feel accusatory. I’m trying my best. I’m also trying to explain when my partner is speaking in an accusatory sense, which makes me feel bad and wanting to avoid sex with her (or my erections being impacted in subsequent attempts at being intimate). It’s really important, I think, for the communication to be playful, and you both still feel sexy by the end of it, and sexy for one another.
Making it playful, whispering in their ear, and being short, respectful, and direct is great. I love the idea of hand guiding for an intimate nonverbal way of communicating yes and no and etc.