What kind of conflict or arguments do you need to work on?

I would like to work on simply listening to her issues without trying to problem solve. I also need to work on understanding my own feelings and sharing them with her when I am able. I know that she wants me to tell her if I have problems or if I am going through something but I don’t ever feel that they are overwhelming enough to where I need to tell her them. I think she just wants me to share whatever I am feeling, however small the issue might be. I want to work on this.

When I’m upset or annoyed about something in our relationship, I avoid conflict and I just go quiet and become grumpy. This either results in me snapping at my partner later on or the problem never gets resolved. I’m finally starting to understand that I should face conflict in a constructive way.


Harder part of my marriage