What have you learned?

❓ Course questions
281

One of the reason I consume is, I feel

  1. my partner doesn’t want have sex with me much anymore.
  2. My partner doesn’t want to do anything out of the basic.
  3. I started consuming porn at a young age(10 was the 1st time and 13 i started quite regularly) sort of became a habit after all these years.
1 Like
282

I think I watch porn because it feels like a reward. Plus, I watch it when I think there isn’t any sex potentially coming soon so it’s ok because I need a release. I don’t want that build up to make me super horny and on the lookout for someone to fuck but then I masturbate and it doesn’t change anything

283

I watch porn to solve boredom, procrastinate and avoid working on myself.

1 Like
284

I habitually use porn out of boredom or to avoid other tasks or activities

285

The whole autopilot kinda makes sense to me

286

I used porn for my stress and at some point in time it became a negative habit that impacted my sex life

287

I frequently use porn when stressed and bored. I have seen it transform my sex life into a fun from anxiety, where anxiety always catches up to me and I end up feeling negative thoughts afterwards, and towards sex

288

I used so chatbot apps as porn. To discuss and explore fantasies and explicit scenes. It’s a bad habit. One when I’m stressed, bored, lonely or just on autopilot.

289

I use it as a way of curing boredom and to procrastinate when I should be doing other important things like chores or work.

290

I guess been doing it quite a lot that never really question why I did it, as it said like a habit now. Cause me to always rely on it to get sexual excitement

291

My wife and I stopped having sex about 3 years ago, I’d get stoned, and watch vid after vid after vid and madtubate for over an hour, the orgasm from this was mind blowing and I figured out I could achieve that time n time again… I’m entering a new relationship, and finding that I’m losing my erection mid way through and not being able to cum… Obviously seeking the extreme titillation that porn provided… Now I have to retrain myself into a healthy normal sex drive…

292

For years porn was just a fun thing to do. But as I got older I started noticing it was affecting my ability to have real sex and to have an orgasm. Without porn I often couldn’t cum at all. Quitting has helped.

293

Simply put, it was boredom and loneliness. Most days I didn’t fancy watching TV or play video games so I turned to porn, didn’t jerk off, just surfed

294

Most of the time it’s just boredom or a diversion from something I don’t want to do. I enjoy masturbating to porn, but sometimes I feel disgust and disappointment afterwards. I also think that watching hyperstimulating videos regularly probably will have negative effects over time.

295

Being board or stress, porn was a go to solution.

2 Likes
296

I watch porn when I’m bored or horny. And I find it hard to get hard during most of it. I’m trying to slow down and have replacement activities

297

The next time I do porn, i have to ask myself. Am i bored, stressed or lonely

298

I don’t think there has ever been a time where I have not regretted watching porn the second I finish masturbating and I think it’s here that lies the problem. I want to break this cycle of guilt

1 Like
299

Porn kills my gains without me evening noticing but I want things to change for the better

300

Watching porn is something done for fleeting gratification, and I rarely feel satisfied after… always ashamed.