It reminds me that I will probably just get nervous and lose my erection either right before or even during sex
. They didn’t intend to make me think that way, but as a child that’s how I interpreted their unhappiness. So my voice is that young adolescent boy, the young man, that was worried. But it’s not the true me I am learning to comfort that young man
It’s constant nagging and reminder that I have a thyroi disease and errection problems from failed apts and death grip syndrome.
It’s like a critic, that has a lot of doubt.
My inner critic wants me to think the more scandalous sex life I had with my past relationship is better then the true connection I feel with my current relationship.
My inner critic tells me I could or could have done better.
My inner critic tells me that if I don’t stay hard, my partner will question if I am into them
My inner critic nags at me and says that I finish too early.
My inner critic tells me that Imight hurt my partner and it scares me. It also tells me that I shouldn’t have any issues and that I’mnot enough because I’m not able to come … and that frustrates my partner and then makes me feel shameful
My inner critic says I am not good enough to please anyone
My inner critic is very sneaky. Sometimes it’s in words, but more often it’s in feelings, or just a background belief. Often it puts pains in my stomach, and he’s very quick to react to attempts to control him.
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My inner critic works in pictures imagining the next sexual encounter. Ultimately creating feelings of embarrassment and inadequacy. It’s simply imagination used against me
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My inner critic make me live my nightmare or worse outcome and then pushes me towards it.
My inner critic is bored and unimpressed. It isn’t convinced I can enjoy myself and makes me doubt myself.
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my inner critic tells me that i’m probably not going to be able to stay hard during sex and doesn’t shut up until it’s proven correct
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My inner critic puts pressure on me. It reminds me how my inability to stay erect during sex will cause my partner to leave
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My inner critic reminds me ofonstantly of when I couldn’t get it up but doesn’t let me remember the good times.
My inner critic is a feeling of inadequacy and lacking aka not enough and I can feel the sensations in my gut and shoulders.
That said a more powerful and enjoyable sense of emotions where felt in the initial ask of what I like or hope to feel in sex. That also is what I fear I will not feel.
You’re not good enough.
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I’m worthless. None one will ever love me
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