My inner critic is saying you won’t start hard or necessarily climax
My inner critic says I won’t know how to last long or last more than one round or satisfy her
My inner critic points out my weight and inability to climax during sex.
My inner critic tells me I will disappoint her by not staying hard during sex and she will blame herself for not being attractive
My inner critic is upset with me because my mind wants so much more than what my body can handle. Or so it tells me… But I know my body can handle what sex is in my head and how I want it. But my inner voice does not believe me and it shuts my body down. Which make me anxious.
My inner critic convinces me that I need to perform well in the bedroom or me or my partner won’t enjoy it.
My inner critic doesn’t believe I can get properly hard which causes anxiousness to rise, which makes everything numb
My inner critic says I’ll lose her if I don’t perform
My inner critic says I will never satisfy my partner’s needs and desires.
My inner critic says I need to perform to avoid disappointment, disappointment leds to abandonment. I’m confused about what needs to be done to keep her happy and satisfied.
My inner critic says I will not be able to perform like past experiences. It says it all about performance I can’t satisfy so what’s the point
My Inner Critic says I won’t be able to get hard
It’s like having a negative person that’s always tryna put you down
So it’ll tell me it’s not gonna work and it don’t
Mine tells me I won’t be able to get fully hard and even if I do I won’t be able to last or stay hard long enough for her to finish
Guess it’s just myself, and I end up talking to myself about how I’m not generally living up to expectations, which intertwines sexually as well in the moment.
My inner critic tells me I’m not good enough. I haven’t achieved enough.
My inner critic tells me, your hard now but your going to loose it or you not going to last.
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same
Inner critic isn’t a thing or a person. It reminds me I am not satisfying my partner, it’s numbness, it’s disappointment, it’s anxiety!
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Mine is like a numbness alongside quite finite statements almost like facts that I am not going to get hard or last long
I have to be the best at eveything perform sexually all the time. It came to int where i went soft once and my ex blew up about it. So from then i have worried.