The inner critic keeps telling me I won’t get or stay hard and I won’t satisfy her. It keeps telling me I won’t feel anything even if I do get hard…
I have a lack of confidence, and due to the last few times trying to have sex have made it obvious I won’t be able to this time either.
My inner critic makes me doubt myself and my ability to perform in the bedroom. It tells me that as soon as things start getting heated I will go soft or if I do stay hard for a while I won’t be good enough and then the doubt will come back and I will go soft.
My inner critic tells me that If I don’t cum fast enough it wont be successful sex
My inner critic is very negative. They tell me I’m not good enough. They say future lovers will be underwhelmed and it will give them a reason to leave.
My inner critic tells me things will never change. And that I’m broken.
My inner critic said I’d cum within first 30 seconds
My inner critic even stops me having the ability to pleasure myself yet alone with someone else. Even with someone who I am incredibly comfortable with, my inner critic doesn’t allow me to perform
I’m not certain I have an inner critic. I’ve been with a partner for a long time and I think sex has become boring and repetitive. I think that’s not helping me maintain an erection.
Inner critic says,your gonna go soft halfway thru bro. Don’t fuck up shes gonna be bummed. AGAIN
You’re not going to be able to get hard or stay hard
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My inner critic says I need sex to be a certain way otherwise I’ll go soft even though that’s not true. But it gets me. Especially if it’s with a new partner
My inner critic tells me If I don’t perform and stay hard and last long she’s going to judge me
My inner critic comes when trying to get an erection with someone new saying it won’t happen and then I loose my whole sex drive
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My inner critic distracts me from my body and for my partner. It takes me out of my interactions and our contact to isolate me in my mind.
Thank you for the breathing exercice!
He knows I can’t mantain an erection, and he know this brings annoyance/pain to his girl. He tells me that i am inadequate if I can’t get her to orgasm.
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My voiceless critic is that I want to show my passion but sudden erection failure will halt that and she will feel as if it’s her.
My inner critic is like a hot stone in my stomach, goading me, telling me that tonight’s not the night, best you try again another night
My inner critic says, Life will be easier when you accept that you can neither give nor get pleasure. It’s been too long; Just stop trying.
It is this constant thinking of avoiding thinking about it. When someone says don’t think about an elephant but that’s what your mind jumps to first. Feels impossible not to think about it
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