My inner critic latches on to any doubts I have. Am I being weird w the girl? Am I going too hard? Too soft?
For me, it takes me out of the moment. I am almost constantly aware of whether i am hard or not. When i am not, i feel like a failure. Like i am not going to get hard. Has she noticed yet? When i am hard, it makes me want to begin penetrative sex quickly before i go soft. It makes me want sex to have a defined sequence so i can get hard and begin.
You aren’t going to get hard…
my inner critic says oh no we’re taking off the underwear now, this means you’ll have to get hard, you know you might not, here we go again. he is like a worm, like a nagging voice in my head
My inner critic is me, afraid of being shamed for having sex and feeling guilty and worried I may not perform well.
Actually the audio gave good advice and talking back to it and letting it/myself know that I’m allowed to have fun, that deserve to enjoy life too.
On a side note, this girls voice was super hot. I noticed myself getting slight aroused which was a really nice sign
The inner critic in me is always thinking about what to do to the beautiful woman I am with and asking why I am not hard yet? This is the situation that so many would want to be in and I feel so lucky to be there in that moment, but I keep hearing my voice telling me what to do to satisfy her.
My inner critic is my own voice. It’s asking me questions and get me out of the moment and kills the vibe ‘Am I getting soft? Am I going to be able to orgasm? Can I keep hard until they are ready to orgasm as well’. It takes my mind away from the physical and emotional pleasure and focuses on the possibility I’m not as hard as so would like to be. The rest is a self for filling prophecy
My inner critic talks to me all the time - when I am doing all kinds of things. Now I realize that it might be participating too much in my sex encounters and that leads to some of my issues.
It’s a connection to memory. Like a combined understanding and panic that the erection won’t maintain and what’ll happen as a consequence
My inner critic starts more as a feeling of anxiety but when the moment comes it’s a voice, standing behind me saying, the moment is coming, you know it’s not going to happen, you got to the point of bringing this beautiful person to your space and now its not going to work, you can get it up but you won’t be able to climax and she will think it’s because of her, the moment will be ruined.
My inner critic reminds me of how how broken I am after a year of mental health and confidence
issues, makes me ask if I’m able to fix myself.
My inner critic has seems to have my own voice. It is like a cancer in my head telling me I’m not good enough, I’m rubbish at sex, and that I don’t deserve it.
My inner critic is a whisper in my ear, it feels like a gentle reminder but that reminder redirects my attention. “Am I hard enough”, “Will I be able to finish”, “Can they tell I’m not completely hard” and then I start to fixate on it or my mind wanders.
Leading up to sex, I have the usual, will I/won’t I, even with viagra I might still have issues so I’m also thinking how much to take, At what time and then I think about the red face and blocked nose that goes with it
My inner critic is myself and at times it will say to me to not even touch my girlfriend because I have no right to start what I can’t finish
It’s me, my own critic. Tells me like it’s not the right time or person, or it won’t last forever.
That guy…he talks to me like its so obvious to him, why on earth do i not know. " you cant do that", “dont touch her like that”, " you know you will fail like last time", " you cant focus, you know im going to be here".
My inner critic is mean and passive aggresive, but still feels protective as well. Like your going to fail because your rubbish and cant do it, so i dont want you getting hurt again. Sometimes its a clear voice and others there is so much static its just pressure and fog building up in the mind
Interesting stuff, it could definitely help to notice.
My inner critic has my voice with a medium volume and very controlling. During sex I’m always hearing it asking me how turned on I am, how the girl is reacting to me, what steps I need to take next, and not allowing me to enjoy my own pleasure sensations. To succeed, I had to create a strong critic to drive myself forward and achieve on my own and I realize now that it is dominating my sex life.
Thinking about having sex makes my heart rate increase and numbs my pelvic area and shrivels my dick. My inner critic just seems like myself sounds like me and seems the same as when I think in my head normally. During sex I’ll tell myself it’ll work over and over again.
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My inner critic exists inside my head. He’s the worst version of me with every issue I’ve ever had with myself. He’s deathly skinny, spots all over and he has a tiny dick