I want to change that itās the only sexual interaction that I know. Itās been a crutch to think I donāt need to step out in the dating world and overcome my fear of being sexual with another person. I donāt want it to be my stress relief anymore. I makes me compare myself to the actors and that just isnāt healthy.
Be mindful about why I want to watch it. Otherwise Iām happy with my porn use
I want to use porn to add variety into my sex life occasionally. I donāt want to use porn to numb out and leave my body. Iād rather read comics or play with my dog to soothe myself. Or create a pleasure list and take things from there.
I want to stop watching porn if not all together, then very sparingly. I feel it makes me over sexy Alize things in my life, and question if Iām getting turned on enough from regular sex.
Iāve mostly kicked the habit already. The only thing I need to hammer down is not to watch it when I feel stressed or depressed. Being able to find some other way to cope would be nice.
I used to have a compulsive relationship with porn and it has been changing overtime as I get more comfortable with my sexuality- and even with my lack of or semi erections. More recently Iāve been building a trusting and sexually satisfying relationship with this new boyfriend so I feel like Iāve overcome that compulsion. I now rarely watch porn but thereās still that shame at the back of my mind - my inner critique. I guess this is what I wanna change.
I want to Batch porn
I want to stop using porn because I do feel that itās having a negative impact on my relationship. I used to be fine with it but got really addicted when I used it to relieve stress from a very difficult job. I now almost canāt stop using it and feel guilty afterwards because Iām not giving that attention to my partner. Iām talking things like hiding in the bathroom when sheās home to get off. It puts me in difficult situations where I procrastinate and almost always happens when I am bored or have time to myself. Need to take a break and focus on other self soothing techniques.
Iām straight but the only porn I watch is gay porn. Ok May be Iām not completely straight. Itās usually oral sex and I believe that itās like a little reminder of how life used to be when I was younger. As a teen and in my early 20ās I had some gay sexual experiences with my best friend. It was a time when I felt free, without the burdens of having to be successfull, have a house etc. these days I watch porn when I masturbate, which usb usually at the end of the week so Iām relieving much built up tension and stress. In gay sexual activity I felt like I didnāt need to please someone. I wasnāt going to be judged for not making a woman orgasm or for losing an erection, which always resulted in me being able to get a normal erection and maintain it. I was always receiving fellatio. So this feeling of safety and relaxed sexual exploration is associated with gay sec and not heterosexual sex. And when I use porn itās to amplify my fantasy of being in that safe place. The mischeviousness Cam talks about, thatās also a part of it. May be Iām actually homophobic because i see my gay sexual experiences as something weird. Itās become a kinky thing.
After using gay porn to masturbate I would always feel dirty and a bit sick of myself and my desires. I canāt remember what they call it but itās a feeling of remorse after cumming. Buyerās remorse? Haha May be not.
If I was to change something about my porn use, which was always occasional, would be not to judge myself for using it. It would also be to find a healthier way to self soothe and not use mastrubating to feel a sense freedom and nostalgia. It would be to feel the freedom and innocence of exploration in all areas of my life without is having to have a concrete result. To feel ok with just exploring being what it is and not judging myself for the end result.
Itās like being an artist. Art can be a practice or a means to an end. If weāre continually looking to make money from what we make weāll be result orientated and will judge our work by how much money we make. If we are in a practice, itās piece we make is a stepping stone to the next.
I want my sex life to be a practice and not a means to an end, which is usually needing to look like a virile man that can satisfy any woman with multiple orgasms. And hence I want porn to be something I use if I need to have that visual stimulation but with an awareness of it not being something I need. If I need it then I have to look deeper as to why.
Iām straight but the only porn I watch is gay porn. Ok May be Iām not completely straight. Itās usually oral sex and I believe that itās like a little reminder of how life used to be when I was younger. As a teen and in my early 20ās I had some gay sexual experiences with my best friend. It was a time when I felt free, without the burdens of having to be successfull, have a house etc. these days I watch porn when I masturbate, which usb usually at the end of the week so Iām relieving much built up tension and stress. In gay sexual activity I felt like I didnāt need to please someone. I wasnāt going to be judged for not making a woman orgasm or for losing an erection, which always resulted in me being able to get a normal erection and maintain it. I was always receiving fellatio. So this feeling of safety and relaxed sexual exploration is associated with gay sec and not heterosexual sex. And when I use porn itās to amplify my fantasy of being in that safe place. The mischeviousness Cam talks about, thatās also a part of it. May be Iām actually homophobic because i see my gay sexual experiences as something weird. Itās become a kinky thing.
After using gay porn to masturbate I would always feel dirty and a bit sick of myself and my desires. I canāt remember what they call it but itās a feeling of remorse after cumming. Buyerās remorse? Haha May be not.
If I was to change something about my porn use, which was always occasional, would be not to judge myself for using it. It would also be to find a healthier way to self soothe and not use mastrubating to feel a sense freedom and nostalgia. It would be to feel the freedom and innocence of exploration in all areas of my life without is having to have a concrete result. To feel ok with just exploring being what it is and not judging myself for the end result.
Itās like being an artist. Art can be a practice or a means to an end. If weāre continually looking to make money from what we make weāll be result orientated and will judge our work by how much money we make. If we are in a practice, itās piece we make is a stepping stone to the next.
I want my sex life to be a practice and not a means to an end, which is usually needing to look like a virile man that can satisfy any woman with multiple orgasms. And hence I want porn to be something I use if I need to have that visual stimulation but with an awareness of it not being something I need. If I need it then I have to look deeper as to why.
If anything, I want to change the frequency of my porn use. For a major part of my life I have used it as a way to cope with negative emotions, or as a way to be naughty. So, if I could begin with being honest with myself, and then seeing if Iād be willing to take a break from it for a little while (only to see how Iād cope without it), then I would consider that a good start.
It used to be an issue before, but not now. I do sometimes binge though once in a a while and I feel like it contributes to premature ejaculation because Iām weirdly training myself to cum faster.
To stop comparing my wife to what I see other than that donāt have any issues with open just look at it to release when I havenāt had sex in a while
I want to change how often I use it. And to stop procrastinating life for masturbation I tend to do that sometimes
Nothing
Porn has become an unhealthy addiction that is sabotaging my relationship. I need to become less focused on the erotic fantasies that porn offers and more focused on my wife.
Stop watching the same kind of videos and to stop being so hard on myself for watching porn
Iād like not to use porn when I should be working or doing other tasks
No weird shit
No weird stuff