I want to be able to watch porn without worrying what my partner thinks or hiding it from her. I don’t need / want to watch it often but it has become linked to taboo because of this.
Honestly I’ve been +100 days withou watching porn and I’vefelt very well. I have day counter in my main screen in my phone to help me to be accountable
Just relegating it to evenings would be a good start.
I’d like to rely on it less. I just use it in the evenings but will try to limit it to the occasional evening rather than every night.
Would rather fuck more people but I use it when I can’t
well, i am ok with one tipe of porn : “casting”. But i think i should change amount. Sometimes as soon as wife go somewhere i watch every day and stop 2 days before she come back (so i can be ready to action), there is also time i have sex with wife in morning then afternoon go for porn.
For now i am on way to remove it completely from my life, wish me good luck
Well the reason i think i have problem with porn… I was thinking i don’t have problem till now. Now i am trying to stop - only 5 days at a moment and i feel horrible. Will not come back to porn for long period of time.
I only use it every once in awhile. The lack of erections worry me and that’s one of the reasons I use it. When I feel lonely or depressed, I use it too. I think I should go for a run or workout instead of using porn.
I want to shift away from porn towards actually engaging with my body and enjoying it
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Not to over use it
Like someone said below, I want to become more familiar with my own body and how/what I feel. Not something visually appealing.
Not watch it when i already have a partner ready to have sex.
I want to no longer watch porn for self soothing. Instead write music. And I don’t want to watch porn as often. Everyday to once a week?
I want to stop using porn and be more present, more in tune with myself.
I want to stop using it as a procrastination tool or whenever I am bored. Or if I use it, I want to use it to educate myself about the different pleasure centres on women
I will use the variety of porn, not only one type.
I want to be more imaginative and creative about exploring what turns me on and how I can turn my partner on. That might require watching less porn and being more in tune/present with myself and my partner.
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I don’t want to rely on porn for comfort. I want to be comfortable and confident in my own ability to have satisfying sex with a partner.
I want to listen to more audio erotic porn to become more in tune to my body.
I want to lean into non-erotic ways of self-soothing and dealing with boredom & discomfort