What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 2)

❓ Course questions
5463

Honestly nothing… I watch a diverse variety of scenes on a website with people “actors” young, old big, small and everything in between. Sometimes, if I meet someone in real life that I like, I’ll try to find a porn scene with someone who looks similar to that person to enhance the fantasy of being with them.

5464

I want to not have a reason for it. I want my fiance to desire me

5465

I want to do it less. I use it sometimes during work when I am bored. Or use it to get up right away.

5466

I’d like to have the confidence to pursue people to satisfy my urges, instead of solely relying on porn.

5467

I want to use porn only when I feel aroused and not as a form of stress relief/escapism.

5468

Find other outlets for relieve stress

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5469

I want to only use porn when I feel aroused, not when I have some spare time.

5470

Just don’t want to use it every single time and feel reliant on it.

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5471

I would like to get hard in person as fast as i get hard with porn

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5472

I want to be able to reach out to people when I’m lonely and stressed, not porn.

5473

I already quit 2 weeks ago a lot easier when you have a girl to help out

5474

I want to find bette ways of distressing from work, such as breath work or mediation, and to get away from unrealistic and specific fantasies with porn and be able to get excited for sex with a girl I’m with. I’m going to take a break from porn to better see my thoughts and triggers around porn/arousal

5475

I want to free myself of the guilt and shame that’s built up around my porn use. I want to work through those feelings to be a good son, a good husband, and someday a good father. I don’t want to be tied to porn use as a crutch.

5476

I want to stop using porn to make me feel better when I’m sad, bored or angry

5477

I want to change the way I consume porn and the way I feel about it

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5478

I want to focus more on sex with my lady, than videos of women I don’t know.

5479

Stop using as porn altogether

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5480

Limit Use

5481

I want to use porn only when I’m desperately horny and don’t have a chance to alleviate that need with the real thing. I don’t want it to be for when I’m bored or stressed.

5482

I only want to use porn if it leads to better partnered sex