I want to tune in to pleasure / erotic feelings that aren’t tied to the porn-related fantasies I find most intense
I no longer watch or use porn, but sometimes find myself wondering about it from my past. I honestly wonder now though if my reliance on certain kinks to get and stay hard (which my current partner is not interested in) is what is causing my ED.
I would like to not depend on my go to taboo scenario to get aroused/orgasm. I have brought this particular taboo into my fantasy mind during real life situations to help me orgasm.
With porn I cum much faster, so I switched to watching nudes/erotic videos so I don’t have to rush through the experience. That’s why I almost stopped watching porn completely
I want to eventually cut it out all together… I use instead of going to the gym and making a healthy dinner.
I often end up watching a few specific things and I don’t think it helps my sex life with my girlfriend at all.
I don’t watch porn
I want to find other ways to self soothe and deal with tough emotions instead of relying on porn/masturbation.
I use it as stress relief and because it gives me an ‘im not supposed to be doing this feeling’. I feel more comfortable bc im by myself and dont worry about what others are thinking. In real life sex i get so focused on my own performance that it’s difficult to overcome having a bad moment.
I’d like to use it as an occasional thing rather than a habit. Be drawn to it more specifically and less generally. For it not being an all-purpose act.
I don’t want to watch porn as a means to end my anxiety issues. I don’t want to watch porn alone. I should rather put my time into things I am passionate about like reading whenever I have urge to watch porn as a mere source of pleasure.
Would like to have a set day where I watch porn, and If I don’t feel like watching it then, I wait till next week.
Nothing, I don’t think it’s a root of my problem aside from the visuals
Accept my body type a little more and stop idolizing those of porn stars
I don’t want to use porn/masturbation/orgasm every morning to help myself get out of bed because I’m stressed/sad/overwhelmed about beginning the day and going to work
I’d like to stop using it compulsively. I want to fix my relationship with sex and porn so I stop that voice in the back of my head that tells me it’s wrong and shaming myself for using porn or having sexual urges
Just want to not rely on watching random females to get hard and to masterbate. But instead get turned on by other ways.
I want to give myself permission to occasionally watch and enjoy porn.
When I am bored or unsettled, I want to do something other than look at porn. It’s just not a real.
I want to change using it to feel good about myself, or to feel loved or feel I am lovable and feel I am enough and improve my self esteem and worth so I either don’t need it or improve my self esteem so I’m in control of the use so all those feelings it provided I can create them from a positive self image and other positive ways to manage stress etc
I want to watch it once or twice a week and think about what I want I really want to see and why. I think that by doing it once a week I wont feel as guilty and will understand my relationship and what I want better.