I want to stop using porn altogether. I know I’m addicted to it. I know I feel desensitized from it to sec with my wife. I know I suffer badly from situational porn problem- I want to have sex with my wife not through porn.
I dont want to use porn as an antidote to boredom
Finding other ways to take breaks during the day.
I want to use it only when I haven’t had sex in a while. I don’t want to use it to relieve stress and I’ll consciously look for other activities.
Start watching it with my partner
I don’t watch it often but when I do I get stuck in a loop and watch for too long. Then I feel like I’ve wasted time that could be better spent. It doesn’t really bring instant satisfaction either. I think it will be enjoyable but it gets boring after a while. It’s not the answer for me so I’ll cut back completely and see what happens.
I don’t watch it very often, but from what I’ve seen I incorporate into my imagination and bedroom roleplay. The only issue with this is in the roleplay obviously my girlfriend can’t get it completely right, whilst in my head however, I can say exactly the right things in exactly the right times in my head for me to get max arousal. So when she does it or doesn’t do anything, either way I can get an erection hard enough for sex unless I do it myself, in which case it goes the second I try to penetrate.
I want to develop a health relationship with porn but not use it all the time. I want to be able to self pleasure and get aroused using my imagination and not have to depend on porn to get my heart racing.
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Just stop watching it
Make it less frequent and not rely on it so much
Watch less of it.
I’d like to stop and have more sex with my wife. I’m too old (48) to do both and recovery time between orgasms is way too long. I think porn keeps me from lusting for my wife as much as I did as a younger man.
I’ve dramatically reduced porn usage as result of my recent ED. I should be active and thoughtful about how and when I use porn though.
Watch less, do other things like read or exercise instead of watching porn when I’m bored or to distract myself, and watch more variety when I do choose to
i want to lessen my reliance on getting turned on by it
I don’t want to watch porn at all anymore to be honest it’s really created a bad image for me that I use to get off… it’s sad but I’m guilty… I want to be confident an know what I have is doing the job an getting there when it’s time…
I want to not be fixated on one type of porn. I want to not use porn as a stress reliever, sleep aid regularly, or as a habit generally.
I just don’t want to be guilty after it.
I also think I have become accustom to using it while high on weed, and that is also a part of the problem.
I want to stop turning to porn when I’m bored and to stop looking at it in inappropriate settings.
I want to not use porn as a distraction or as my only sexual activity. I want to experiment with another person’s touch rather than the visuals of porn