What do you want to change about your porn use? (Part 1)

I would like to reduce the reliance on porn to get and maintain erection

It’s not controlling me in any way, but I do want to diversify my watching. I don’t want to rely on my kinks as they are very unlikely to work in real life, and normalizing normal sexual encounters is important to me.

I don’t use porn very often, but I know that I do use it to cum at certain moments. Typically this happens at night, when I’m tired, and I know I’ll get more easily aroused with porn so it will be a quick and efficient jerk off. I will look up some specific porn videos and will probably skip to the part I like best.

I would like to change the way I watch porn, not how often. Maybe switch up the kind of porn I’m watching and at different times of day.

I actually feel like I should watch porn more often haha. I watch it maybe once a week. But perhaps when I do watch it to try and see what turn ons this leads me to

Not use it to procrastinate or to escape negative emotions

Nothing. I’m rarely watching it any longer

Just want to quit it so as I can have good sex with my partner

Maybe to not be so reliant on one type of woman and her attributes as you are not likely to find a partner who has the attributes of a porn star (especially later in life when the women you date are older).

Try not to use it as a soothing, coping mechanism for poor self confidence/ mental health

Try to jack off more naturally without feeling like I need porn to be aroused. I think paying more attention to my body and being more comfortable in a natural environment rather than an artificial one can help me be more present when having sex.

I don’t want to use porn as a source of self soothing. I will watch it if I need to ejaculate after not having sex for weeks but not to relax myself from daily routine .

I am not really sure if I should be worried about my porn use or not. I generally only look at images or short clips and almost always just pretty young women in erotic poses rather than hard-core poses. Most of the time there isn’t even nudity, and I usually don’t masturbate to it.

On the other hand, I do look at it regularly, up to several times a day. I think I also might be developing an unhealthy “relationship” with specific women that I particularly like.

I’m not sure what this all means.

My attitude towards it, I’ve always felt bad after watching it, like why can I get so lost in porn and not sex there’s something wrong with me. I’m past the addiction part and have many outlets. Im proud of that but I still get that thought after watching it, “well now you won’t be able to have sex after all that stimulation.”

I don’t want to use porn as a stress relief as it has destroyed my sexual life where I am not able to get an erection or even maintain an erection
sometimes

I want to stop watching porn completely. I’ve been addicted for many years often compulsively using it 4,5,6 times a day form the age of 14/15. Recently I’ve had periods of abstinence of 10,14 and sometimes 30 days. I’ve watched quite extreme porn videos which has recently led to terrible behaviours such as findom and Femdom in real life.

I would like to leave porn completely behind. I think I used it as an emotional crutch after poor sexual experiences. I had those due to a deep rooted insecurity. My hard ons would be so hard I would actual get stomach cramps.

I believe it all work’s physical fine down there I just have to stop the porn viewing and work on the original issues of my insecurities.

I have dialed my porn viewing back considerably as of late and want to continue to make it an occasional thing. The goal is once or twice a week.

I want to watch variety of porn.

I have stopped using porn since starting Mojo. I realized it takes me longer to get aroused with out the visual cues. But by stopping porn, it has shown me I’m too much in head. It has made me aware that when Im with my partner, it’s my setting of expectations that is limiting me.

I do not use porn

I’ve gotten to the point where I watch porn just out of boredom, not even to masturbate. I’d like to make a change so that I only watch porn if I actively want to masturbate, not as a boredom mechanism.