Release
It’s an imagination thing, it gives you something your not getting in real life. If I was in a relationship, I wouldn’t use it.
Explore different fantasies. Get a quick release whenever I want or need it. It’s ultimately not as satisfying as real life but serves a purpose
It’s a fantasy. I didn’t sleep around very much. I am embarrassed by the amount of women I have slept with. To that end, I feel I haven’t seen enough women naked in real life. And porn is somewhat a substitute for that. If I see an attractive girl on the street I will not sleep with her (as I am in a relationship), but I imagine what she might look like naked by comparing to a porn images or videos which I have seen.
Porn is also totally safe in the sense that I don’t worry about performance. And if I am not enjoying a video or are slightly bored I move to a different video or image.
I’m single now, so I use it to fulfill that part of what I’m missing from a relationship
Fantasies mostly , being able to see things I can’t see or experience in real life .
Quick satisfaction
Im not able to fuck girls regularly in real life
I don’t get any sex and my stress is reduced by watching porn.
Fantasies and to reduce stress and boredom. Also to try to fulfill a missing part from not being in a relationship.
Fantasy and watching all kinds of different bodies and how others have sex.
I’ve a gf and things are going really well with her. I don’t watch porn often, but when I do, I can spend hours in front of my PC until late at night, feeling restless, and afterwards I regret it. I probably do it when I’m stressed or simply bored with always having to deal with real life matters. I really need to put an end to this bad habit, especially all those wasted hours! ![]()
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It helps me fantasize about my partner
Seeing naked women in a way that I can’t in real life, which is a turn on for me.
I use it when I am stressed at work, to take my mind of things and when I am bored. My phone is my worst enemy with it being accessible 24/7.
I then feel guilty afterwards. I need to break down my habits
I get to live out various sex acts I know my wife won’t do vicariously
I use both porn and also exhibitionism online (cam sites / bating) so there’s both the porn itself plus these parasocial sexual connections that I’ve become too accustomed to in terms of what stimulates me.
Honestly? I get to see things I feel I’m missing out on or would like to see. The main thing is the female participant wanting to be a part of it. Over 20 years of marriage I feel like my wife just simply isn’t as interested anymore and that kills the libido. Porn acts as a fall back in a way when I need a sense of engagement.
I think it’s an escape from what I see daily. My partner is still beautiful and I am still attracted to her, but there are scenarios and visuals that I would like to see that I just can’t in my relationship.
Its not only a sense of escape, but being able to enjoy seeing someone relish and enjoy (or pretend to in alot of cases) and getting into that eager to please headspace without all the extra baggage that comes with preparing for and seducing someone. Its just a readipy available fantasy that requires no effort.