Exactly what I do / happens to me.
Inner critic turns up knowing sex can/will happen, already saying that it not going to go well. It a constant battle truing to suppress it and then perform but already thinking that am only going to disappoint my partner
When the idea of sex is there, my inner critic is constantly trying to overthink or plan how the sex will go to try and maintain an erection. Or will be highlighting that I won’t be able to and that maybe I should just avoid it all together. Putting on a condom is also a time when my inner critic makes me rush and overthink things
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