After divorce and being celibate for several years, I found a girlfriend. Our first time attempting sex I could not get and stay hard. Since then I have been taking Viagra 50 mg. I have also developed back pain by my kidneys. That’s worse when I wake up in the morning. I went to the doctor to make sure it wasn’t a kidney infection. Totally forgot about the Viagra so didn’t tell them about that. Was all clear. She said it was muscle pain and she’d go away in a few weeks. It hasn’t. I’ve had it for about a month and a half. I have tried reducing the dose to half 25 mg a few times and that helped the first couple times. And the soreness was much less but then the last time I took it the was about normal.
I got my Viagra through Hims and they seem to think that it’s unrelated. I have sex about twice a week evenly spaced and I don’t want to stop using it because every time I’ve tried twice since that first time I failed at penetration.
I have generic Cialis ready to use but I’m scared it will cause worst back pain.
I’m just starting this program and hope it will help, but in the meantime I don’t want to stop sex or Viagra as our relationship is in the hot and heavy phase and we’re both enjoying it.
Does anyone have any similar experiences or suggestions?