I feel like I have absolutely no control with my willy/penis. One minute it’s very hard n literally 20 seconds later its more or less gone. Sometimes I can get it back hard but more times can’t. It’s more confusing as I absolutely adore my partner very physically attracted to her. Pills are hit n miss. Im well aware that I beat myself up about it. I always pleasure my partner through oral, several times lol. But it is becoming more frequent. When I think back I’ve had issues now n again. Im 44 end of the month n obviously age takes its toll but I lift weights regularly, rarity drink n would say that I’m pretty healthy. Maybe one too many nights spent in my mates kitchen talking absolute garbage… im now panicking or expecting that there’s gonna be issues with getting an erection. My partner is fine n says she doesn’t worry about it, i believe her but it doesn’t change anything. Definitely going to start with the pelvic muscle exercise. Also the strange thing is that when it’s all going well I have no issues with premature ejaculation. That is one good thing about getting older lol.