Unable to get complete erection

🍆 Erection issues
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I mean it’s obvious in my mind why this is happening but thought it would be a good exercise to write it down…
Currently trying for another baby with my wife of 7 years we already have 1 child although struggled to conceive due to wife’s PCOS.
Every time her ovulation window comes up I know it’s time to perform and so my little fella doesn’t wanna play … This makes her feel unattractive she’s very body conscious anyway as am I at times …I tell her it’s not her and how much I love her and how much she means to me but I have begun questioning that now and whether I am just saying it. We recently had a rocky patch in our relationship where she found out I had been watching porn excessively (at every other day) and found I had subscribed to an OF page which hasn’t helped.

Suppose what I want your opinions on
Is my erection issues down to
1.Past porn use
2.stress of trying to concieve
3.Attraction toy wife

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Similar boat here. 3 years in a relationship and can’t keep it up during see the past two times &n I question if I’m even as attractive to her as I was when we met or if it’s in my head due to the stress I put on myself to perform well. I would definitely say it is the stress you put on yourself and over thinking. Prob can play a factor if you get off 5x times a day to it and rather do that then with a real person. I watch porn or beat off just about every day or every other day since I’ve been 14 - well over a decade now & it’s never played a factor unless, only effected the quantity of sperm that came out.

Psychological is definitely what I would say is playing a part and the stress you’re putting on yourself.

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Thanks for the reply.