I’ve been on the app for about six months, was doing a lot better but then put the app down. I haven’t been on here in about three months. I’m realizing now I shouldn’t have stopped as I’m falling back into some old habits.
With the few recent rounds of sex with my wife, I’ve run into a different problem. I’ve always been quick to penetration because I fear I’ll lose my erection. My wife therefore doesn’t get wet so penetration with a lubricant is needed. However, the last couple of times after penetration I end up tearing on my penis and lose my erection. It’s enough blood and a sting from ripping under the head of my penis.
It’s seems I’m tearing from the penetration but if I don’t penetrate quickly after getting an erection then I’ll lose it. But, if I penetrate without my wife being ready then I’m tearing my penis.
This is new for me, I’m struggling with it so I’m coming back to the app and need to stay for a while. Any thoughts on how I can improve here?
Bro forget about penetration and completely remove for at least awhile everytime you cuddle up play around kiss and close ur eyes and enjoy the moment stop thinking about losing your erection by completely removing the penetration process.
After awhile you’ll get used to kissing and getting her wet down there whilst you enjoy also do this couple times and dont think about anything but the intimate moment feel the lips touch her and enhance all of ur other senses once ur in cobtrol and u get out of ur head you can start experimenting with penetration but have a rule of thumb whenever you start feeling like ur gonna lose ur erection shift ur thinking back to the moment kiss again touch and bring the other senses.
This has worked for me also try and close ur eyes for as much as possible use ur mind to visualise what ur doing in the bed and try to rely less on ur eyes also minimise position changes at the start when u get to the penetration phase once u build up that confidence youll have no issue holding ur erection whilst u change positions
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