Yesterday night I had sex with a girl that I’m seeing for a little while, I came pretty fast and a moment after she asked me « did u cum ? » that triggered me, my inner critic went balling and I felt really weird even if she wasn’t disappointed of the sex. I asked her why she asked me that thinking that she wasn’t satisfied and she said to me : « it’s a good news that you came « hahaha I like this girl. But the question made me uncomfortable and I know it’s my inner critic
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she probably just wanted to make sure that you were satisfied bro!
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“Yes, you make me really hott - (go down on her and go again)”
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She sounds like a real one 
Yh she was wondering if I wasn’t hard anymore
Sounds like she didn’t mean anything by it at all! In fact, it sound like she might have liked that you came when you did. Don’t turn a good thing into a negative. That’s your inner critic telling you you have a problem. Congrats on the sex!!!
Do consider sharing with her that you personally would have like to last longer so that you can get the feeling off your chest and give her an opportunity potentially to tell you why she doesn’t care one way or the other.
Bro literally nothing negative about it - I usually start by pleasuring my girlfriend so that even if I come early it’s not an issue