My wife is very private and withdrawn sexually, but she knows this helps me, so she indulges and plays along
Nothing much so far
I blocked them out for a while because I thought they were going to fry my brain. I was also getting away from my porn addiction and felt that fantasizing was just mental porn.
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Honestly almost not at all anymore. I used to fantasize way more back when I didn’t yet own a smartphone. It’s like daydreaming mostly gets replaced by mindless scrolling etc
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Fantasies haven’t been in my routine ever since I got addicted to porn mainly. Never had a reason to when I can get what I wanted visually at the push of a button. Really sucks what porn does to men and they don’t even realize it till it’s too late. I started when I was 11 man. Like we should sue for the fact that kids can easily access these sights.
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They are very much a part of my life. It’s like a hot girl in public or at the gym. I have used porn but my brain can create scenarios as well that can get me going. It’s fun to imagine
I’m bringing them back slowly
I have not fantasized very much or at least for awhile. I think it’s mostly due to access of porn. But now that I have been off porn and masturbation for 4 months I find it very difficult to fantasize or be aroused by imagination.
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I honestly cannot remember the last time I truly fantasied. I hope this can reconnect me with my imagination.
Don’t fantasize and find it hard to believe 95% of men fantasize like the statistics say. I should start doing it more.
I keep most fantasy to myself
I need to start being mindful of fantasizing full scenes more often. I’ve realized that a lot of my fantasies are brief moments, almost like still photos, but I struggle to maintain attention for full scenes - which I think is directly linked to why my mind starts racing during sex
I’m mostly secretive about my deepest fantasies
I find my fantasies aren’t usually taken respectfully
I don’t share fantasies with my current girf but we are working on it.