Some only-for-me. And some that I can share with my partner.
I think it could increase our connection if I share some deep desires
I don’t have too many sexual fantasies do to years of representation, I want to have more and I want to be able to ask for them, but I have trouble even exploring them myself and know what i want
Not as much as they used to be. I think that’s part of the problem
I think this unit has been good. I enjoyed it and got semi thinking of my own and then reading others. I enjoyed this more then porn
It has been a big part of my sex life. I honestly have had recent struggles with it because I lean heavily on my fantasy . That makes my wife uneasy because she doesn’t look like most the woman I have fantasized about. Shame is so strong.
I haven’t been using fantasies at all, so I’m excited to use this to build my libido back up!
Until recently they have been very private to me and I have felt guilty about a lot of them. But I have recently been opening up with my wife and as long as I pick the right moment she’s been super positive about it. I’ve even got to act some of the long held fantasies out 
I have always fantasized but never considered actually working on fantasies and building up my libido with them, I always had a high libido until my divorce and then started having some issues with a new partner. So I am looking forward to seeing how actually putting time into fantasizing will help my sex life in the future.
I’ve had fantasies but try to dismiss them as I feel guilty about them. I don’t want it to feel like cheating. But I can incorporate that into fueling my libido and not feel bad about it. It’s a normal part of arousal
They haven’t been but will be going forward
We share some and some i keep for myself
My wife and I share about her being a hotwife and fucking other men..it really turns us both on
My sexual fantasies are the only time I get laid!
I guess I mainly fantasize about my own partner and doing things with her. Other women/things I see certainly interest me and turn me. I’m not an overly sexual person in general so I’m not fantasizing or thinking about sex 24/7
I would like to use them more than porn. I feel porn has taken some of my imagination away. It would also be fun to have my partnere be open to actively playing on each other’s fantasies
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I used to have them and that’s what would give me sexual desire and then they stopped because of kids, work, life issues and stress, now I am trying to get it back,.it is hard and I have had a break through but lost it because of a recent family emergency, not I have to work hard to get it back, but I know I can do,.just gotta work at it.
I used to have them a lot more when I was younger, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve gotten lazy, and probably too used to using porn.
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I think about them sometimes. Just life and stressful times have taken over, but turni g a new leaf now and changing who I am for the better
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Sometimes. I try to incorporate some of my partners fantasies and I try to incorporate mine. Mine sometimes require a bit more setup and “prepare-ahead” so that reduces the spontaneity of it
I would guess I have an underdeveloped sexual fantasy world compared to most people and haven’t ever really used them. But I realize their power and want to build up my bank and put it to use.