I get horny and I am able to get an erection when I masturbate, but I don’t get hard just by thinking sexual thoughts any more.
This has been happening for a good 15 to 20 years.
When I was younger, I used to get hard as soon as I thought about something sexual or saw something sexual but now that arousal switch seems to have broken.
Has anyone else had the same problem and if so, what has worked best for you?