I have been having issues getting over what is in my mind “the last hurdle” when cumming. I guess this comes with performance anxiety and focussing too much on the end goal. I feel like climaxing but when I focus too much or the latter I can never cum and it gets a bit akward. I have an understanding and beautiful girlfriend but it would be nice to let her make me cum instead of me having to finish myself off everytime. There have been cases where I have masturbated up to the point of ejaculating and she takes over and it feels so good. If anyone has any tips or ways I get can over this anxiety would be so grateful.
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Same here!
I’d love for her to finish me.
It’s happened 1 time in 6 months. I’ve given up porn and solo (99%…) I’m doing my best to stay in the moment. She’s hotter than Georgia asphalt and I love seeing her naked. I just have such a death grip it’s pitiful…. Last 10 years with the ex wife I wouldn’t initiate due to shame, and preferred solo play. So I’m quite familiar with my hand……
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Similar here. Just can’t quite make it to the point of no return. I normally have to finish myself off, which she actually enjoys watching me do, but I would love to finish inside or let her make me cum. Somehow I need to train myself to cum when I want to instead of having to jerk it like mad!