Testimonial after having ED for 10 years

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Hi there,

I have not used Mojo for quite a while now, but I do not forget how helpful it was to get me started in having a better sex life.

So, how did my ED start?

I was 22 years old and had just left my very first girlfriend, whom I had dated for 3 years. I was ā€˜pressuredā€™ to have sex and have the ā€˜funā€™ that my friends were having.

I felt like a loser for not having sex, and I wanted to do it at all costs. I thought I was Superman, and I could just get an erection and fuck any girl I put my mind to.

At a party, I found a girl who was not particularly beautiful, and I went home with her.
I needed to perform; I waited so long to be in this position.
I guess you know what happened next, haha.

Thatā€™s how my ED problems started, and I felt lost for a looong time.

I found a girlfriend who was very understanding about my issue and loved me very much. However, I could not disappoint her, so I started taking Cialis from time to time. Sometimes, much more often that I wished. That lasted a while, and life was good, but something in me always told me that was not right.

I was a prisoner of this drug, and I always felt it was wrong. One day, she finds out. My world collapses. How am I supposed to keep having sex?

Her reaction? Probably the best one could have. Obviously, she was in shock, but after letting the information settle in, she looked at me and said. 'Iā€™m worried about your health, it should be harmful to take it, please stop. ā€™ Knowing that she put me, the broken version of me, first was like a fire in my heart.

Where before I felt I needed to take Cialis to have sex, my mind just flipped. Taking it secretly would be a ā€˜treasonā€™ to this incredible girlfriend.

That was 2 months ago, and I have not used it since, and yes, we have had sex :slight_smile:

I feel like a new man. What bothered me before, like watching a movie where a new couple is going to have sex for the first time, do not bother me anymore. Iā€™m happier, healthier and fucking proud.

Iā€™m not sure if I am writing this for me or for you, but I hope it helps. I think you know that, but let me repeat it : you are not alone. If I ā€˜madeā€™ it after 10 years, you can too!

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So happy for you.

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Great stuff! What about Mojo do you think helped you out the most?

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Great stuff mate and great to hear

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Nice work my man!!!

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Secrecy is the killer, right? But knowing you have a partner who will understand you, weaknesses and all, is better than Viagra. :slight_smile:

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Amazing story and its all too common for all of us. Best thing is to accept that there are always days when you win and days when you loose. This is all part if life and experiences. We all win 90% of the time and never celebrate those wins but when we loose that bloody 10% of the time we create havoc in our lives. We believe in this more than it warrants. Waky wakyā€¦

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Love to hear this for you! Thanks for sharing!

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I have just joined the platform yesterday, thank you for sharing.

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I can really relate to that, what ave helped you the most achieving more genuine connections, Less ED?

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Hello @rear-jade-cardinal and @cognitive-peach-cephalopod - Hereā€™s what helped me the most:

  1. Understanding the Fight-or-Flight Mechanism

Recognizing when Iā€™m in a fight-or-flight state was a game-changer. When I notice it happening, I try to verbalize it to my partner as a way to protect myself and stay present. I might say something like:

ā€œBaby, Iā€™m feeling a bit nervous right now. Itā€™s possible I wonā€™t be able to perform, but if youā€™d like, we can start by cuddling and kissing and just see where things go.ā€

Honestly, 90% of the time we do get thereā€”and for the remaining 10%, I donā€™t beat myself up about it.

  1. Practicing Specific Exercises

Exercises like soft penis pleasuring and wax and wane really helped me. Every time I practice them, I feel more confident and in control.

  1. Meditation (Optional but Helpful)
    Meditation is always a good support tool. While not as impactful as the first two for me, it still contributes positively to my overall mindset.

In general, Iā€™ve learned that itā€™s a combination of many thingsā€”your health habits, your mood at work, your sense of self. What matters most is believing that things can improve and working on multiple aspects of life: communication, physical activity, nutrition, therapy, and more. Itā€™s not about a quick fix, but rather building a sustainable and holistic approach to feeling better.

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The same thing happened to me with my gf. She was not as supportive and was threatening to leave. We moved past it as I explained it a couple times and was comfortable enough with her where I didnā€™t even really need it anymore. That took some work to get used to on my part. We are no longer together so Iā€™m worried about whether itā€™s gonna be an issue again but this info and story really helped me in knowing Iā€™m not the only one.

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I am going through a similar story right now, I was with a girl for almost 5 years, and we have been broken up for a little over a year. I just met this new girl who is beautiful and amazing, but the past two times we have tried, I havent been able to get hard when it really matters, itā€™s the most embarrassing and frustrating thing ever and itā€™s driving me crazy.

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Hi! This post is really helpful for me ! Thanks for sharing this information

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Literally exactly the same issue!

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Have you found anything that helps?

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Not yet. I got out the relationship about 8 weeks ago. I have mamaged sex with some girls but hugely was overwhelmed with a specific girl as I was super attracted to her. I was under the influence also which probably didnā€™t help as I was nervous. However, ive barely had sex in a year and I think porn was just there to serve a purpose so im on a complete ban. Hopefully this app will help rewire my brain!

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Hi

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Hello