Hi guys, hope you are all doing well. I recently had a few failed sexual encounter attempts again despite various exercises for mental health on mojo, physical health (both kegels and actual weight lifting), and changes in my diet with foods that tend to boost libido and testosterone.
None of those methods have seemed to however unfortunately work (yet), but I believe the basis of my anxiety comes from not having that much sexual experience. I often stress out about what I am doing, how to stick it in, how to position myself, etc, and this ultimately means that despite remaining hard during oral sex as soon as it’s time for penetrative sex regardless of how I try to calm myself down, the fear takes over and I go soft.
I was wondering if anyone had any experience with pills and had any recommendations, I think it may be very helpful for me as I can’t practice the act of sex if I keep going soft. However this way I’d hopefully stay hard and practice would make perfect until the anxiety goes away about not knowing what I am doing as I get naturally more comfortable and experienced in sex, positioning, etc.
Of course I fear getting addicted to the pills and putting all my faith in them, but given my problem can be solved by simply having more sex it seems like it would work.
What do you guys think, and do you have recommendations for pills, I have done some research and it seems like propranol would be good for anxiety and taladafil for the ed issue, but I’m not sure.
Thanks guys and best of luck on your own journeys!