Gentle leg and Butt grabbing
It depends on what they like and every woman is different. You have to observe their responses and listen to them. Talk about it first, get her thinking about it and aware of her body. If she knows what turns her on - do that. If she doesn’t, then start slow and gentle, and increase from there.
Lots of kissing and fingering
Have her lean into you. Her back against your chest. Then tell her to touch herself. Just keep talking in her ear. You can play with her tits, finger her, play with her clit. She’ll feel you get hard too which is usually a turn on. If you’re up for it go inside her and don’t have sex but keep doing what you’re doing. It’s great if you need condoms for family planning but still want to feel each other.
Learning a new partner takes time. I’m enjoying learning, and the foreplay for both of us is eager, thrusting, licking and kissing. The sky is the limit for me, as I learn and apply…it’s a great dance!
Enjoy the moment making out first, then slowly start to become more sexualised with touch that allow you both to be even more in the moment
Making out for a bit first, slowly touching and caressing all over
Fingering and making out
I like to do this thing where my partner lays on her belly. I start from the ass or lower back, kissing and kicking my way up her spine, up the neck and to the ear. Works wonders!
With oral I think that firm pressure over a large area with your tongue is best. Don’t give direct stimulation to the clit, unless you’re sure your partner wants that.
Pleasuring her, but including ways that you particularly enjoy. I like being smother and burying my face in her ass, so going at it that way gets us both revved up
The best thing is to react to her. If she likes it she’ll let you know in many ways. And one should stay there for a while before moving on to try something else.