Stimulated during foreplay but not during sex

Hey guys I’m 19 years old and I’m in a great relationship with my girlfriend at college. I can get hard during foreplay but as soon as I put on a condom and try to put it in I go soft. She’s been super great about it and supportive but I’m still struggling. Any advice? Also along with the Mojo excersises, do pelvic floor excersises actually help?

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Exactly the same boat my man I am also 19 with the same problem. I think its just nerves and performance anxiety but its so hard to get out of the loop

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How long have you been strugling?

Hey man. I’m 35 and running into similar problems. Have you guys tried oral? Do you stay hard for that? What about hand job, boobjob? It might be worth trying a bunch of this with low stakes or whenever you’re up for it, if she’s up for it to be a bit more spontaneous.
Like a my turn your turn type deal.