Spouse participation

I’m a newbie to the community working to get my mojo back :). I had one negative experience and it’s seemed to derail a super active and important sex life with my spouse. She is incredibly supportive and encouraging. We continue to try while I work Mojo, but things only seem to get worse - I’m sure mostly because I’m trying to hard. I’d like to hear from the community about things other couples have tried together while you worked through this issue. I’ve had several “failures” that I would just like to experience a small “win” - even if that’s full penetration for only four seconds. Thank you!

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Hi,
My advice would be to move the goalposts a bit…
Instead of focusing on penetration and calling that a win, have giving your partner an orgasm a win… put the focus on her.
Introduce a vibrator if she is agreeable to that…
This takes the pressure of your erection and may let you get onto the moment more instead of being in your head.

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