Hi, I have no problem getting hard alone, I love stroking my thick hairy cock alone until it’s throbbing and a blow a huge load all over myself. I feel like I should have no problem translating this with others, but when I have another set of eyes staring at my dick, for some reason I start to judge myself through those eyes and imagine it critically. Because of that, I struggle to get hard and can barely muster a semi, and then I imagine the other person telling everyone im small or that I couldn’t get it up. It’s so frustrating because I know if I could just match my solo confidence, I’d be able to pleasure so many others as well as myself … im hard now just thinking about it lol. How do I not get so bogged down by the others eyes???
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What if they’re bent over?
Maybe try blindfolds either for you or for your partner, it spices up the game and for me it has worked to totally relax the mind
same boat as you mate. i play on cam all the time and minimal issues with performance there. but then irl ill get in my head about what the person infront of me must be thinking, how things will all go downhill and ill ruin the moment if i cant get and stay hard. then even if theyre giving me objectively fantastic oral or trying to stimulate me i have palpitations and am a nervous wreck on the inside then im soft or have to get them nexct to me and just stroke myself to completion and it’s this cycle that repeats.