Im in a pickle. My wife and I are trying to have another baby and I am struggling to ejaculate when we have sex. We have been in this situation for about 5 months and she’s v resentful for me not giving her what she wants. I’ve always had issues with sexual confidence and the thought of sex with her panics me as the stakes feel like they are too high for me to absorb. Any thoughts?
I’m going through the same thing- I have only been trying for about a month but the pressure has got to me too. I had a couple really good days that I felt no stress and was able to perform, but this week was back to it. The Kegals and the fantasy exercises have helped me in different ways. But it seems like a never ending cycle and my wife has been supportive but it gets to her, cause we both want to be parents. I’m trying to train my mind to not focus on the past and be as present as I can. But easier said than done! Good luck- and try to stay positive!