Past embarrassments trigger E. D

Never use to suffer with e. D but once started going on nights out ext started having some issues but then met a girl who I got close with and would be made to feel bad about my performance would finish herself off I front of me if I couldn’t perform ect and now as soon as I think sex is on the cards with my new partner the thoughts of before kick in and it just goes soft, my gf says she doesn’t mind and understands but obviously as a man Its a massive downer any tips how to overcome this at all have used pills cream ext before which work great but need to get to the route issue