No sex -> failed safe sex -> working unsafe sex with mixed safe -> failed safe sex —>?

🍆 Erection issues
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So me and my girlfriend have had our fair share of struggles. started with not having sex, then we tried a couple times and i got soft everytime she broke a condom out. then we didn’t have any sex for a long time. then we had a conversation about 2 months ago about starting again but slowly.

So i just don’t know where to go from here. we started having unsafe sex and it’s been better and i have made improvements. but now im to the point where mentally i want to wear one but every time she takes one out i go floppy noodle then her mood is ruined. so i just don’t know where to go from here. need some help with staying hard without stimulation all the time. also need help with staying calm when she puts it on bc i always go soft and ruin everything

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I haven’t used one in 25!years, (vasectomy!:sunglasses: + gf and I are tested and monogamous!)
A piece of advice I heard here regarding rubbers: don’t think of it as a pain in the ass—- think of it as a permit to Fuk!
Put a positive spin on it.
Have her put it on.
Make it fun.

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yeah thanks. i’ve tried the last time. because obviously cumming inside of her is way more enjoyable for both of us, and i was insanely horny and all i wanted to do was nut inside her and i was rock hard. we didn’t do anything and then a couple hours later i wasn’t as horny and it didn’t work.