I was just using a pocket pussy right now, trying to train my brain to a sensation other than my hand. Edging for about 10 min. All of a sudden, no urge to cum anymore. Sensitivity lost. The top of my dick almost feels numb, like a drastic lowering of nerve cells. Similar to when the dentist gives you a shot in the mouth. Gonna take a hot shower right now to see if it changes anything, but i cant recall a time this has happened before. Been struggling through a lot lately so this feels like life kicking me while im down. I was just trying to relax and unwind and I cant even seem to do that.
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I’ve had situations when I was super aroused, getting myself off and then suddenly no urge to cum anymore. Tried different ways. Nothing. Just focus on the enjoyment you had. The cumming is not the important bit always. Same for sex… it’s not necessarily only good sex if you cum. I do get your frustration though. You were looking for a release and didn’t get it.
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I have this happen quite frequently — it’s like my nerves get overwhelmed and it won’t be possible to cum any more.
A break usually fixes it for me, but sometimes I just won’t cum that round. I think that’s ok!
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this is called the refraction period, the time it takes to be able to be active again, in your situation you didn’t cum but your penis probably feels super aroused so it just needs time to rest and get back into action
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This happens to me as well. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone.