i started dating this beautiful girl, and we waited until the time was right to have sex. the day came and it was going great. then i came in her (by accident) and she freaked out. this caught me off guard and kinda traumatized me (a little not major). we talked it out and we are better then ever. now when we start hooking up i get hard immediately. when its time to perform i lose that erection bc i am thinking about what happened the first time. its really fucking with my head
That happens. You have one experience and then it sticks in your head. Use the tactics on here and also I think with time and talking to the girl about it you’ll relax and be back to normal
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