Issues maintaining, with new partner

I started dating a new partner a few months ago, and she’s amazing. We seem compatible in all possible ways. She’s incredibly sexy and I’m extremely attracted to her. Before we slept together, we had a few conversations about sex, and she painted a picture where she is hard to please in bed. I get hard easily with her, but have only been able to finish a couple times, which is not something I’ve had happen with any partner on a consistent basis. Obviously, the more it happens, the bigger an issue it gets in my head. She’s very patient, but I know she’s coming out of a long relationship where sex became extremely rare towards the end, and good sex is a priority for her. She is 36, I am 41. This seems psychological to me, but it’s creating a lot of pre-sex anxiety. In previous relationships, great sex was often the thing I could count on. Now, with her, it’s a legitimately good relationship… with this one exception. It’s frustrating, and I hope this app helps.

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Do you or her expect to please her only with the D?
If so that’s a lot of pressure on you…. Does she cum only from D?
I’m assuming you’re pretty well versed in oral and fingers?