I'm not going to let this beat me

🍆 Erection issues
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I’ve recently left a sexless marriage where I’d last had sex over 25 years ago and any form of intimacy over 10 years ago. I’m in the early stages of a relationship with someone who I’ve known for maybe 9 months during which time a friendship has bloomed and well…

Anyway, we have a healthy sexual relationship as you’d expect for a relationship during these early stages but I’ve found sometimes it’s just not possible to maintain an erection from foreplay into intercourse. I just soften. It’s not a desire issue and she’s very understanding but I can’t help feeling I’m failing.
We’ve had intercourse and it’s been fine and these issues just seem sporadic.
I’m not going to let this beat me after all of this time

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That’s awesome if it’s not all the time. You’ve got this friend!

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Sounds like you already have the right mindset my friend and you are here! Good luck!

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Familiar story!
I had not finished with my wife for years. Marriage ended. New wonderful woman 3 months ago. I’d get hard with pills and a silicone ring but couldn’t transition from foreplay to intercourse without losing it. I’d lose it during great oral or even a handy with lube!!!:flushed:
Pills can’t overcome what’s in your head. Once I realized that, plus this app, things have been looking up!
Explore this app. Be willing to try it all. Even if you don’t think itll work for you… it’s all a learning experience.
Good luck man. Keep us updated!