Identifying the inner critic during soft penis pleasuring (Part 2)

It might work now, but what if it doesn’t ahen it matters

This is stupid is what it says

I took some desensitizing cream beforehand and it really helped and felt weird bc I wasn’t in pain!

My inner critic said that doing this was somehow going to break the progress I had been making recently.

The penis is weird. Sensations come and go at will.

Initially, it said that my penis is small when soft. I quickly countered that I’m good at pleasuring my partner, what does my flaccid penis size really matter.

Kept saying why and how he hates that he can never get hard

Kept saying how I can’t get hard when I’m with someone else, only when I’m alone

my IC was telling me to be insecure about the size of my flaccid penis, even though any person i’ve been with has never had an issue with it. i need to learn to ignore my IC and be comfortable with myself and my body

I realized that the pressure I put onto my penis is exactly the pressure I put onto myself. Is the same inner critic that demands the best performance always without excuses.

My Inner Critic kept worrying that I wasn’t get hard when I was touching myself. Kept worrying that I was leaning it was ok to not get hard which might make it more difficult to get hard later. It wanted me to link touch to getting hard.