How do you plan to simmer?

Im going to find different ways to call her beautiful and send more physical affirmations of love&lust.

If I look at it I can see how I and my wife have let our intimacy slip away for many years due to various factors starting from long distance relationship, worries about work etc

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touch

I feel like if I am more present with her, listen more attentively, express appreciation to her more, it will cause us to connect more and lead to opportunities for more touch and care. I think it can lead for natural opportunities to simmer.

I fantasize about the women I met, run alternate scenarios in my head where everything clicks just right and we get rocking.

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Be more playful and not so serious all the time. 

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More physical touch, kiss, and text

We already do some of this, but I plan to be more consistent with it. Work/life can be distracting

I hear this loud and clear

Put more effort into flirting/talking about desires etc when we’re not together.

Flirt more. Tell my wife she is sexy. Tease her

Keep the fantasy going in my head

Flirt more. Say what looks attractive. Kiss more.

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Quick massage or I can’t wait to do ——- with you text messages are two good ideas

Strokes through their hair, kissing more passionately throughout the day, spicier messages

More touch and trying to linger in a touch or connection a little longer

We already do something similar but doing more frequently and do always goodbye kiss

Masterbait

Flirt more throughout the day

give her a slight pullback and give her a kiss