Im perpetually single here, but its nice to put a name on what I do whenever I am in one of my good days where sexual energy is flowing, and I revisit fantasies every so often throughout my day. It usually means a good solo session will be in the near future.
Did it this morning with some dirty talk
Kissing is definitely a great way to get the simmering started.
Play with his hair and arm when watching tv. Long kiss in the morning holding his face
Compliment them with some eye contact, maybe some lingering contact too
Describe to a potential partner how the way they look or act towards me, gets me horny.
Kissing and complimenting sounds great. Maybe some sexy talk if she’s up for it.
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I’ve been watching porn for so long that it is a challenge to focus on one fantasy. With porn, I’m just going from one thing to the next. I’m going to work on it, though.
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I think stopping porn and masturbating will help with overall sexual wellbeing and will reset your libido and your drive to have sex with your partner. I plan to simmer by running it by my partner first and then starting to send small messages and do these small gestures throughout the day to make her feel wanted and to remind her that I do find her sexually attractive and that I do feel aroused by her
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I plan to simmer by dropping little compliments and expressions of desire in text messages and on dates with women I’ve been seeing.
My libido is definitely due to negative thoughts. Either deal with the negative thoughts or completely get rid of them.
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Take notice of the negative emotions. Talk to my girlfriend about it. I think she’d be glad to hear of my efforts to get away from porn and bolster our sexual connection
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I’m single so I guess I’ll just try and think sexy thoughts throughout the day as per the suggestion.
Flirting with my wife
Look at my partner when we talk, express how I appreciate the way he dress and how much I appreciate eg. a nice gesture, kiss him passionen when we meet after work.
We already have the pleasant habit of long kisses at hello and goodbye so I’m going to make a point of adding more compliments to our texts/calls, see if we can build a habit of sharing innuendo and flirts
I already do all of this with my wife but rarely get anything back in return. We’ve been married 18 years.
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Im going to compliment her and little by little turn her on, touch more, kiss more
I am planing to do solo , first
A lot more body contact