Sending suggestive messages and fantasizing through the day.
Kiss them passionately
Flirty messages, casual nudity
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More kissing, cuddles and compliments
Passionate kissing when we first see each other and when we say goodbye. More flighty messaging
Flirting, compliments, long and passionate kisses, gentle caressing
By giving my wife little signals and by verbally telling her my desires.
I’m single, so I’ll work on noticing physical moments where things feel good within my body throughout the week and try to fantasize about those sensations, let myself be in my body and build neural pathways between my physical self and sexuality
Definitely will change the pecking to more passionate kissing
By myself for now! Going to have to fantasize and frequently!
Single rn, will probably start thinking about fucking hot strangers when I see them in public
I already do some form of simmering with my gf daily
I do the simmering but I don’t think it was authentic. I was more going through the motions. I’m going to take it more seriously now and pay special attention to it.
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I do the same thing! I need to work on this too. Good luck!
Check ins throughout the day
Fantasizing
Sexting
Like an earlier comment, I think I already do a lot of the simmering suggestions, but it’s not necessarily with intent. I will aim to be more present during these moments.
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For me I’m currently in a very new and still casual relationship where we’re only just becoming intimate. I think a great way to simmer is by touch or subtle romantic gestures to show that you find them attractive
I always do that in a way while in the gym…