Ive actually been doing simmering for years without knowing it and have stopped in the past few months… What a revelation, thanks!
My partner and I simmer all the time I just didn’t know it. It’s exciting to give it a name and a result.
Self simmering at the moment as I’m in-between partners
I currently try simmering with my partner everyday, I just didn’t realized it until now
I didn’t have a name for it until now but yea simmering is something that’s I’ve done for a while now this shows me more ways to incorporate
I will need to do simmering with my partner each time when we meet
I plan on introducing the idea to my partner so we can both be on the same page
Solo, to work on it myself first, then try to apply it to a potential partner when we’re already that far in a relationship when we’re not just getting to know each other after a couple of dates.
Honestly sexual talk really helps me or like dominating through text or talking really makes me feel hard
I don’t have a girlfriend
Maintain my fantasies and interactions with my crushes.
Go out and about looking to spot stimulating sexy stuff.
Talk to my girl about my fetish and get her to incorporate it more than she does now
I’ve discussed it with my partner, I want my desire back, that burning passion!!! Hopefully simmering will help in some way
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Maintain my fantasies through out the day
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Passionate kiss and grope instead of just a peck
Discuss with partner and introduce slowly
Keep my solo fantasy game on until she’s home and then chat with her about the exercise and invite her to do it with me
Keep the fantasy going and look for the cues, also let myself visually appreciate her. Maybe go out in public today and try to pick up on some cues.
I have been with my partner for 4 years and we have read through this together! We definitely want to try it and see how it goes, from passionate kissing, sending flirty messages to touching each other whilst we are sat watching movies. We really hope it pays off 
Me and my partner have been having sone intimacy issues with me being so new and nervous around the topic of sex. I feel this will make me more comfortable building up to encounters as well as with them generally