Solo. Am single currently
I will kiss my wife with passion, touch her, flirt with her, tell her how beautiful she is and that I want her. And with texting I will text her I can’t wait to see her and how badly I want her
Message my girlfriend telling her I can’t wait to see her and kiss her hard
Long kisses, messages, touch
Perfect excuse to sexualise every hottie I see… Ha, not really, but maybe…
I like this idea. I think we are fairly flirty, compared with our peers, but I shall take a step back and look at simmering. I will involve my partner in the conversation, once I have my own mind around it
Single so thoughts
Kissing my partner when I leave out in the morning is a good start! Also, dressing and undressing in front of them.
Single at the moment so just thoughts for now
I do this naturally though my partner is unique in that he doesn’t do things like this. He’s not the most expressive person. When I do get something though it means the world to me.
Single at the moment so only thoughts for now
I am currently single, by choice. I have not had a name for it until now, but I do “solo simmer” by remembering some of my previous sexual partners and what we did to each other. I do have two “friends with benefits” that I will also drop hints to, giving little innuendoes, even at times out right saying how much I crave them. It does really help to keep the interest and “the heat”. I never knew this is what I was already doing until this exercise.
I plan to solo simmer by letting my thoughts run for a little while rather than suppressing them. At first, I used to think that I can’t let my mind wander unless the time was right and I was about to partake in a solo session. Now, I’m realizing that it’s ok to let the emotion ride for a little while no matter what the time or place may be.
I will caress my partner’s arm, shoulder, waist. I will kissi her long and smell her hair and body.
Passionate kiss every time before leaving, no exceptions.
We didn’t used to simmer and we made love once a fortnight on average in a 30 year long relationship. We now naturally simmer daily our libido’s are sky high and we fuck at most given opportunities - on average daily. It’s not just the simmering but that’s a big part in it.
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I always thought I had low testosterone and felt like less of a man because I wasn’t trying to jump a partners bones at every opportunity, but at the same
Time there was no reciprocated simmering. No cheeky flirty play r messages, so off dropped my libido and felt crap for it. Discussion with friends showed that most of us wanted to be teased and seduced, but we weren’t. So the whole discussion here about simmering makes so much sense. Ecen thinking about this topic and remembering past exploits has got some simmering underway
I’m single so probably fantasies
Im single so ima try the solo simmer but i do have plans with a girl when i head home so ig i have my material. Ill see if shes into the idea, maybe ill get lucky
Interesting that it touched on feeling desired. Ive simmered with partners all my life but it’s been a one way track, hopefully making them aware of it helps with that.