Solo simmer and keep playing those scenarios in my head
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I’m going to actively kiss her for longer, point out things that I find attractive about her and hug her every day.
I haven’t been doing this or no where near enough, to the point where it almost broke our relationship. Will try my very best to simmer with the wife after letting her know first and am confident it’ll become more natural in time.
I think of her a lot when away and do fancy her but for some reason I haven’t been doing this as much as I should. Also know it’ll improve my life as well as hers. Looking forward to enjoying more of a bond and sexiness with her.
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I’ll kiss her more passionately
Having been married for so long I forget the need for partnered simmering. In the beginning simmering came easy for me. I’m incredibly attracted to my wife. I would write notes, give big hugs and passionate kisses, give compliments in a sexual way. I’ll get back to what we used to have.
Cuddle on sofa. Cute text here and there
Single at the moment so I’ll be using occasional fantasies to simmer.
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Get back to the little things. I know my wife loves little acts, I need to keep up with those little acts and sprinkle in the simmering to keep the temp hot
Maybe prepare some tea and a candle and a hot shower.
she’s gone rn but i’ll tell her i miss her and i can wait to see her when i pick her up from the airport. when i see her i’ll give her a big kiss. maybe some tongue and when we get back no sex just some real close cuddling and play in her hair
This actually help me realize alot of things. That men are not some faucet that you can simply turn on. It requires romance and desire. Thankfully I have a supportive and understanding partner to help me,
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I haven’t got a partner for years and i have mostly bad experiences before that. I probably need to get rid of the negative thoughts first. As a single, i think i will start to build up some erotic fantasies about some girls from the company i work for ( i have already have some).
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Had an experience with a coworker today and even tho I don’t want to date within my company I can’t deny I was aroused all day and it was fun
Single currently, planning on playing my fantasies in my head and simmer
Single for the next 40 days cause I’m travelling for work
Tell her I can’t wait to see her this weekend
My last main sexual partner is in perimenopause and her libido dropped to 0 and we stopped playing months ago and now just friends. 
So it’s solo simmering for whenever comes next. Though a bit hard to get motivated.
Single but 2nd date coming up with an interest. So gonna try fantasy simmering tomorrow. And I don’t need to try as I’m already simmering pretty hot! Interested def in simmering on the sate though … taking those inspirations and playing with them 
We’re already doing it to a certain extent naturally, unknowingly and things have been really hot and sexual lately as is but after listening to this exercise, I think I’m going to consciously broach the subject of simmering to my girlfriend
We do it naturally, but I’m going to show her this little unit and we can make it a little more explicit