I would definitely rather have a female voice telling me how to arouse myself with soft touch rather than a male voice but it would be better if she slowed down. I think this is a great exercise because it will train my brain and body to get aroused by gentle, soft touch rather than a phone screen with a naked body on it.
They work well.
I’d like to explore these exercises with a partners touch!
I need to work on getting aroused with touch only as I’m normally very visual
His voice was great, much smoother than the females from yesterday. But they being said, I enjoyed applying different pressure and really paying attention to temperature. I think this really showcases the journey of masturbation and not the destination don’t even know if they makes sense, but it was very helpful to get out of my head. I didn’t even mind the light touch.
Didn’t really like the male voice
its helpful direct the attention to the sensation vs monitoring my body. Something to praxtice during sex
I like them much more than the meditations
This time (2nd meditation) the pace of the man voice and tone was perfect. Previous one had me feeling I was in hurry, definitely to fast for me.
Still spectatoring, way to much for myself.
I felt a bit weird that it was a man telling me what to do but I just trusted it. I feel like I can feel more but it doesn’t arouse me very much more just feels like it tickles
It’s a bit odd at first but i think changing my relationship with masterbation could help massively with my experience of sex
I want to break away from the habit I’ve built while masturbating. I know exactly how I like to be touched to get the job done so when a partner does something different it can sometimes put me into that spectator mode to see if what they’re doing is going to work. I need to stop relying on my tried and tested methods
Working on not spectatoring is a big deal for me and this was a wonderful exercise to help with that
Feeling a little frustrated because I don’t have a problem getting an election the problem is keeping it when I penetrative and it doesn’t feel sensitive
Staying focused and enjoying the experience.
I realised very much have been on auto pilot when masturbating. Same routine, often not even that hard.
This exercise really got me into sensations I was experiencing rather than just staring at porn.
I enjoy it the climax I get after I do the excercise
I want to work on my focus on what I’m doing.