So my problem started about a month ago we where trying for a baby for around 6 weeks then we had to stop as we have a holiday coming up and the risk is a bit higher but a week on from not trying things are fine then bang the last 4 weeks iv been struggling with getting it up and studying I fill im in my head so much before sex its almost like im my own problem how the f**k do you get out of youβre head and stop panicking