Hey I had a opputunity have sex after a long time of depression with a random partner that I meet in a pub. I masturbated on the morning and went to meet with her afternoon. We sit had a sip of drink tried to watch a movie I felt erected . I started kissing her and we both got horny a I fingered her and she wanted me to put my dick inside. Somehow even that I wanted so but couldn’t get hard she tried to help me but only made things worse. I tried to touch myself but made me get a premature ejaculation. Went to the bathroom tried to get again in for it was impossible. I left embarrassed and super stressed. Is this a one time thing or should I see a doctor. Please any personal experience on this. Aswell I have strong doubts regarding random sex and feel that Im doing something wrong before.
I had this happen before but in my current relationship while on holiday/vacation, it was scary and basically got stuck in my head the entire week so I understand your situation.
It was most likely a one time thing, but feel free to see a doctor if it’ll help but your mind at ease.
How much had you had to drink at the pub? Believe it or not even a small bit of alcohol can make me struggle to get it up or finish.
I know you’ve never had it happen but try not to panic, it’s totally normal that sometimes are bodies just won’t listen to our minds, the trick is to not get stuck in a negative feedback loop with it. The best approach I’ve found is just to laugh it off and put it down to an off night and that’s it.
Also don’t forget, you masturbated before… not sure about you but my refractory period is longer than average, it usually takes me a day or so to be ready to go again but thankfully my partner rarely wants to go two rounds.
Finally with regards to your last point on random sex being wrong, you might have some belief system that was causing you to feel guilt or wrong in the situation meaning psychologically you just weren’t into it… maybe a long term /safe partner is just more your thing?
Focus on the Mojo exercises and you should be good next time.