Finally had sex after 3 months of performance anxiety!

@superb-fuchsia-asp
I get what you’re saying. I’m on the same boat. Can’t get hard because I get nervous knowing my gfs ex was way bigger and lasted longer than me. Makes me insecure and I can’t even get hard. And if I do, I’m cumming as soon as I enter her. Idk how to overcome this and I know she misses the pleasure he gave her. It sucks.

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My gf left me cause of my Ed idk what to do

Same boat relationship ended bad and I had sex maybe once in a year and I struggled to get hard but I managed, now I tried to have sex with my ex and I just couldn’t I’d get hard and then soft again before I could put it in, not really sure what I should be working on

Monthly-coral…, yeah… it sucks but we gotta get out of our heads. I get to see mine tonight. Been thinking about her all day. It’s been fun fantasizing what I’m hoping we do tonight…. There’ll be plenty of fun for both of us. Hard dick or not….:smiling_face_with_sunglasses:

Same here man

Bro I’m 25 years and having the same issue. Ever since I tried having sex with a particular girl I didn’t find attractive, I couldn’t maintain an erection and the sex didn’t happen. I was so focused on the things about her which turned me off in an instant. This gave me performance anxiety. My sex days were on and off but ultimately I just couldn’t keep the erection. This had led to a cycle of disappointment and eradicated my sex drive completely