So I’m 29. I find that I love sex with women, However over the last 5 years or so discovered I’m also pan. Really dove into trans women and since not being able to secure sex with a trans woman I find attractive, have experimented with a few guys only for the fun. No emotion. Now I can’t find my partners to even stimulate me anymore without some sort of honey or stimulant. I think I’ll have to use fantasy a lot in order to stay in the zone. I can get erections alone at home easily.